No matter what way you die, the people in your life will feel hurt.
Some people actually commit suicide for serious reasons
such they were abused, raped, someone very close to them passed on, they are clinically depressed.
People also forget not everyone has friends that are supportive or that are even to open to listening to their problems.
I knew a girl who was being sexually abused by her father and her mother refused to believe and instead blamed for the abuse. Wtf kind of parent is that?
suicide is only selfish on the perpetrators part if they are leaving others behind to grieve, and suicide is only cowardly if the person is doing it to run away from something.
The characteristic of the action is not black and white, it can be a variety of descriptions depending upon the situation.